Moochdocking Etiquette

Moochdocking is the slang term for parking your van, skoolie, RV, or whatever you travel in on someone’s driveway or private land—in essence, mooching a little space (and maybe a few resources) from a kind friend or generous stranger.

It’s a spin-off of boondocking—which usually means camping without hookups on public land or parking lots—but instead of staying on government land or at a big box store, moochdockers are invited onto personal property.

While boondocking typically means no amenities, moochdocking sometimes includes small perks, though not quite what you’d expect from a full-blown RV park. For example:

• You might be able to top off your water tank or fill some jugs with their garden hose.
  
• Some folks offer an extension cord for basic electrical needs.
  
• If you’re lucky, access to a bathroom or shower might be on the table.
  
• And if you hit the jackpot, laundry! I personally love offering my washer and dryer to travelers when I can.
  

Dumping your gray or black tanks? That’s usually not available—but if you’ve got a simple urine bottle, most people are fine with you emptying it in their toilet.

To help make the moochdocking experience smooth and respectful for both sides, I’ve put together a few etiquette tips for those who are hosting. Whether you’re offering a spot once or often, a little clarity and communication can go a long way.

Etiquette as the Host:

If you’re opening your driveway, land, or yard to a fellow traveler, thank you. Moochdocking is all about community and mutual respect, and being clear about what you’re offering can make the experience easier and more enjoyable for everyone.

Here are a few kind, clear, and respectful ways to set the stage:

Be Clear About the Spot

Let your guests know what to expect when they arrive. Is the spot level? Gravel? Grass? Muddy after a rain? This helps avoid surprises, like someone expecting a concrete pad and finding themselves tilting in a bog on a hill.

If there’s tree coverage, mention whether it blocks solar panels or Starlink reception. And if you have Wi-Fi available, let them know whether it’s okay to connect and if the signal is strong enough to stream or work from.

Share What You Offer (and What You Ask in Return)

Whether you’re offering water, power, or laundry access, be upfront about availability and expectations. Some hosts offer these things freely, others ask for a few bucks to help with expenses. That’s totally fair—just communicate clearly.

Same goes for length of stay. You might say, “One or two nights is great, but I’m not set up for long stays.” Or “Feel free to stay up to a week, but check in if you need more time.”

If there’s a noise situation—like morning traffic, barking dogs, or rooster wake-up calls—give a heads up. Moochdockers often appreciate peaceful rest and knowing what to expect.

A Note on Laundry and Utilities

Personally, I ask $3 per laundry load, and I usually hang things to dry a bit before tossing them in the dryer to save energy. I also explain this to show I’m mindful about utility use.

Some people give guests a couple of free nights and then ask for something like $10 per night after that—totally reasonable if you’re footing the bill for electric and water.

Communicate Your Routine and Household Rhythm

It’s always helpful to share your general schedule so your guests know when you’re around and what to expect. For example, I usually let people know, “I’m up around 6 a.m. and I work from 9 to 4.”

It’s also a good idea to clarify how meals work at your place. Do you usually eat solo or enjoy sharing a meal now and then? You could say something like, “We typically eat on our own, but I’m happy to catch up in the evenings,” or “I’ll cook tonight if you want to handle dinner tomorrow.” Moochdockers tend to be flexible and appreciate the heads-up either way.

Let them know if you’re happy to share coffee in the morning or have a little space in the fridge for their extras. Small comforts go a long way on the road.

It’s also thoughtful to mention things like whether the doors will be locked at night, or if you’re planning to leave an outside light on (or off) for them. These little details help guests feel welcome and informed.

And if you’ve got projects or chores, speak up! Many moochdockers love to lend a hand. Even something simple like, “If you’re up for it, I’ve got some firewood that could use stacking,” makes it clear that help is welcome, but not expected.

Pets, Trash, and Fields of Dreams

If pets are welcome, let folks know your boundaries—like whether you expect waste pickup or if you’ve got a big field where dogs can run free. That little detail can feel like heaven for travelers who are used to leashing and scooping every step.

Tell guests what to do with trash or recycling so they don’t have to guess or stash it awkwardly.

Be Their Local Guide (If You Want To)

You don’t have to play host or entertainer, but being a local mini concierge can go a long way in making someone’s stay more enjoyable.

Have a few suggestions ready—your favorite coffee shop, a great little restaurant, or a local thrift store. Moochdockers often ask about things to do in the area, so it’s helpful to have info on nearby hiking trails, unique sights, or fun local experiences.

Chances are, they might also need recommendations for practical services like a good hair stylist, barber, nail tech, massage therapist, mechanic, or places to fuel up and refill propane.

And if you’re comfortable with it, offering your address for deliveries can be a huge help. Whether it’s a part they’ve been needing, a restock of essentials, or a fresh pair of sandals, knowing they can safely ship something ahead is a quiet but meaningful comfort.

If you’re close with someone and trust them, offering the use of your car for a quick errand or trip to town is next-level generosity—and deeply appreciated by those who’ve been without wheels for a bit.

You Probably Offer More Than You Think

Even if you feel like you’re not offering much, remember that travelers often just want a safe, friendly space. A flat spot, access to water, and a conversation now and then is sometimes more than enough.

For me personally, I don’t charge for staying at my place. I offer laundry, power, water, and a warm welcome—because my motto is don’t keep score, give 100%. I moochdock often myself, and I truly believe it all balances out in the end.

Etiquette for the Moochdocker

Moochdocking is built on generosity and trust, so being a thoughtful guest goes a long way. Here’s how to help make sure you’re welcomed back with open arms:

Give a Heads-Up
Let your host know your travel timeline as early as possible—even if it’s just a ballpark like “mid-May” or “end of June.” Include how long you hope to stay. Something like, “We’re planning to spend a week or two and explore the coast in between” helps them understand your rhythm.

Share the Details
Be clear about what kind of rig you’re in and what you might need, especially if they haven’t hosted you before. If you work remotely and require power or reliable internet, specify that upfront, along with any expectations you have regarding quiet hours.

Talk About Pets
If you travel with pets, let them know. Share the details—like whether your dog is a runner, how they behave with other animals, or if they’re reactive around kids or cats. That info helps everyone (especially furry ones) stay safe and happy.

Use of Amenities
If your host offers access to amenities like a bathroom, laundry facilities, or a kitchen, that’s excellent! But if they haven’t offered, and you’re hoping to use something, don’t assume—ask. And always offer something in return. For example:

• “If I can use your grill, I’d love to cook dinner for you one night.”
  
• “Would it be okay to do a load of laundry? I can do yours too or pitch in for the electricity.”
  

And if you’re using the washer/dryer:
✔️ Don’t let laundry sit
✔️ Clean out the lint trap
✔️ Ask if they have any preferences (like using a high spin cycle to reduce dry time)

Offer Something in Return
Ask what they’d like in exchange for the stay. Most will say “nothing,” but be ready to offer food, money, or labor. Even small gestures, like treating them to dinner or picking up a grocery run, show appreciation.

Respect the Space

• Be social and kind, but also aware of their vibe. If you prefer quiet time, say so.
  
• Respect their neighbors and property.
  
• It’s totally fine to tidy up your rig, but try not to let your stuff sprawl out for days on end.
  
• Ask where to dispose of your trash or if they have a recycling program.
  
• Pick up after your pets—no exceptions.
  
• Keep the space clean and leave it in the same condition (or better) than you found it.
  

Communicate Changes
If your plans shift and you need to leave earlier or stay longer, communicate that as soon as possible. Nobody likes surprises when it comes to parking space or privacy.

Be Mindful of Noise
If they’re heading to bed and you’re starting a bonfire, keep the volume low.
No generators at night—ever. And if you need to run one during the day, ask if they’d prefer to run you a cord instead. That goes for their neighbors too.

Ask Before Receiving Mail
If you need to receive a delivery, confirm it’s okay and double-check the address. Don’t assume the directions they gave you are the same as their mailing address.

Pitch In, Even in Small Ways
Offering to split grocery costs or pick up some extras for the house is a great way to contribute, especially if they’re not charging for your stay.Above all, be kind, respectful, and refrain from acting entitled. This isn’t an RV park—it’s someone’s home. Moochdocking works because of trust, generosity, and a shared sense of community spirit. Let’s keep it that way.